Have you ever wondered how to be a cuckold? Is becoming a cuckold something you have thought of before? Often?
I will show you, in three easy steps, how your new life as a cuckold can come to fruition..
What is a Cuckold?
As usual with kinks and fetishes, there can be several ways of incorporating them into your sex life. Cuckolding is one of these.
The definition of a cuckold is when a person’s partner has sex with one or more other people out of their couple relationship. This can represent many different kinds of relationships, so for argument’s sake, I am going to be stereotypical and talk about a man being a husband, or cuckold, and a woman being a wife, or Hotwife. Please know each person can be any gender, sexuality, or any race. It’s just easier to keep people straight (so to speak) as man/husband and woman/wife.
An aspect of cuckolding often overlooked is that to be in a true cuckold relationship, the partners are not cheating on each other… cheating meaning without the other person’s knowledge. You do not have to have sex in front of your partner in order to claim the name as a cuckolding marriage/relationship.
How to Be a Cuckold – Step 1
This step can be the most difficult and that is negotiation with your partner. If you two have never talked about anything kinky, this can be a long process filled with precarious potholes and mountainous ledges.
Some people choose to watch porn with their partner as an intro to their cuckolding desires. This can open the conversation when nothing else seems to. At times, reading an article and either leaving it sitting on your computer or tablet can have your partner asking, “What’s this about?” You can then say it was just something you heard about and wondered if it was something you’d be interested in. “Did you read it? What did you think, honey?” That way you can talk about things without anyone pointing fingers, but just saying, “I didn’t know what that was and looked it up.” This allows you two to talk about the possibilities of a cuckolding relationship.
Finally, another common way folks bring up and talk about the cuckold idea is in couple’s therapy. Make sure you have a kink-friendly therapist before bringing it up! But a great therapist is wonderful for facilitating such an intimate discussion.
Cuckolding Moves Forward – Step 2
Once you have the whole idea of your being a cuckold and your partner the Hotwife as a desired part of your life, now you move on to the Bull. Does your partner have this person in mind? Do you have him in mind? Isn’t talking about it one of the hottest parts of this whole process? If you and your partner have sex, I bet sex is going gangbusters about now as you discuss her being fucked by another man while you watch.
Which does bring us to the main part of the Step 2: What kind of cuckold will you be? The variety of choices is infinite, only limited by your imagination.
This graphic offers a small idea of what the possibilities are. What is in your mind? What are your Hotwife’s ideas? (Which are more important than yours, of course.)
Step 3 – Be the Best Cuckold You Can Be
You and your partner have figured all of it by now, right? You even have the Bull who will fuck your wife while you sit in a chastity cage and watch from the corner of the room. Right this minute, you have the most important job in the world. That is to make sure your Hotwife has everything she needs to have the most pleasure possible.
You get the couple refreshments if you see they are sweating… before you are asked. Fluff that man if you see she is needing some help with his dick (ask first!). You be prepared to eat some creampie at the first indication of your Hotwife pointing to her pussy.
Go online and learn all the ways you can be the perfect cuckold. After that first sexual experience, nothing will ever be the same again. Aren’t you excited?
I sure am!
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