I have come to realize that in a lot of my fantasies where I pursue pleasure in a more hedonistic sense, I almost *always* have at least one cuck in them. When I think of a night of pure pleasure seeking, satisfaction pursuing, and bodily gratifying experiences, I find that I often includes a cuckold – someone who is offering the fine food, fine drinks, and other “refreshments” to the other participants in my fantasy and me.
Cuckolding is not a universal experience.
Hell, we have even covered the various types of cuck before in “The Five Types of Cuckholds” – so we are well aware that not every cuck is the same. Some cucks cling to their masculinity and enjoy watching their partner be pleased sexually by another person, others lean towards feminization and fluffing. With each type of cuck, there’s obviously going to be different kinds of mistresses and bulls who work best with them – so that made me begin to wonder – what would be my fantasy version of my favorite cuck? Look, I spend a lot of time listening to fantasies and talking about them – you can’t blame a mistress for pondering a few of her own.
For me, cuckolding starts *outside* of the bedroom.
I mean, yeah, obviously wherever the sexual activity is happening, the cuck will be there. What I am trying to say is that being a cuck can be like a state of mind – on their way home from work, they already know once they get home that I might regale them with my exciting “sex-capades”. I might have them lick my panties clean, do my laundry, hell… I might have a bull on the way that evening. Before my cuck even knows what the actual plan is, they are figuring out how they can provide the best level of satisfaction to me, what ways they can anticipate to serve me. It’s a level of devotion and thoughtfulness that I relish as a Mistress, and when I have a cuck who is eager to please and dedicated, I am much more likely to keep them around.
While the cuckold may be focused on their mistress, they better also get along with any other participants.
As we previously covered in “Cuckold Rules of Conduct”, it is imperative that the cuck gets along with the bulls. The bulls are providing something to me that the cuck knows they cannot, and to ensure that I am properly satisfied, my cuck needs to ensure that my bulls feel welcome and taken care of. Some of my favorite things to do with my cuck is have them greet my bull at the door while I play with myself in the bed, making sure my cuck gives the bull a tour of our place, offer them a drink, etc. and host my bull until they lead them to me. The entire time my cuck is taking care of my bull, I am warming myself up and building up anticipation for the nights events. While my bull and I are enjoying our romp, I really love to have my cuck there with refreshments as well – one of the hottest things I have ever experienced was being fed chocolate covered strawberries by my cuck while my bull yanked my hair and… well, anyways. The dichotomy of carnal aggression from the bull and the care from my cuck, the sensation of my hair being pulled while I try to chew and swallow the tart and juicy strawberry… *Ahem*.
Anyways. I very much enjoy a cuck who can entertain and engage with my bull. Fluffing is totally optional, but I would be lying if I said “I don’t wanna see a cuck suck cock.” When my cuck asks me, “Mistress, would you like me to get him ready for you?” I can just feel my panties get wet. Of course, don’t even get me started on the fun I have when watching my bull squirm as my cuck surprises them with their deep throat expertise… (Especially when I know I am the one who trained them on how to do it!) I also appreciate when a cuck anticipates what I want- offering lube, condoms, sex toys, etc. based on, well, let’s say “business needs“.
Cuckold Aftercare is important, too!
There’s a common trend in cuck fantasies where the cuck is the clean-up crew at the end, and we go over this in detail in “What is a cuckold cream pie?”. Having a cuck who comes along after I have been turned into a post-orgasm bliss puddle and provides gentle aftercare is crucial in my opinion… Whether they need to clean up the cream pie, clean up both the bull and the cuckoldress, or just lick up all the pussy juices left over, a cuck who participates in aftercare is key in my cuckold fantasies. Further, since at this point, I have been satisfied to the moon and back again (hopefully), my cuck has a chance at making me cum a few more times – something that is an uncommon experience for many cucks (and entirely dependent on the cuck’s oral abilities). I mentioned earlier that I really like the contrast between a gentle, caring cuck who is affectionate and sweet, while my bulls/lovers are more aggressive and carnal – and the aftercare is one of the areas where these differences really shine. I think that aftercare is one of those places where a cuck can really solidify their relationship with their mistress, by ensuring they are paying attention to and meeting her needs. Even with just the dopamine and oxytocin released alone, good post-coital aftercare is a great way for a cuck to bond with their mistress.
Lastly – Let being a cuck take pressure off.
Harper discussed it in “Cuckold Acceptance by Miss Harper”, but truly, a cuck that understands that they are a cuck and accepts it will be much more satisfied. I’ve seen it too often where a partner with a penis ends up punishing themselves over the fact that their penis fails to perform – either it’s too small, or it won’t get hard, or stay hard, or ejaculates prematurely. The stress over their failure to perform roils inside their minds, compounding upon itself until the person is miserable and still unable to perform – leading to lack of satisfaction in both partners. Once a person starts to realize they may be a cuck, I encourage they learn how to embrace and accept these things about themselves. Over time, they should be able to shed the rigid performance requirements and truly focus on what matters – making sure their mistress is satisfied. On top of that – they may get to explore aspects of their sexuality that they didn’t even consider they might have! Who knows what orgasms lie in wait, somewhere over the cuck-rainbow. 
To Sum It Up – my favorite cuck would be…
Someone truly submissive and devoted, willing to explore their bi-sexuality to amuse and arouse me, who wants to ensure my bulls and I get to experience the full spectrum of carnal and hedonistic desires and satisfaction. Who serves as a counterbalance to my bull and provides clean-up and aftercare once the bull has performed their duties.
Are you that kind of cuck? Give me a call, let’s explore our cuckold related fantasies together at 800-505-1678 or click to call from Cuckold Fantasties if you see me online.
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