One of the most difficult things for any cuckold to do is to accept their lot in life. To be fair, that’s true for most people in general, but for cucks it can mean putting aside all their dreams and fantasies around their sex life and romantic relationships. That moment when it finally sinks in that you have some real impactful problem with your ability to satisfy a woman, and will be better served by stepping aside and letting a real man take over, can leave a permanent mark on your psyche. Or maybe you’ve got a nice dick, but just really get off on watching because the intense pervert nature of your being can’t be changed to make you more vanilla… Either way, cuckold acceptance is beautiful to see, because it’s just like self acceptance.

Cuckold Acceptance

Cuckold acceptance begins with you learning to be ok with the reality of the world around yourself. And really, that starts with being able to look at reality for what it actually is. No rose colored glasses here, no daydreams of what could be, you have to stop and really look at the situation you’re currently in. Can you feasibly satisfy your wife? Can your cock make her feel fulfilled? Are you good at sex, or do you just saw back and forth like a small penis cuckold until you nut and then roll over and go to sleep? Coming to full acceptance of the reality of the situation means you have to face these sorts of uncomfortable questions and answer them honestly.

Full Acceptance of the Cuck Mindset

“But, Ms Harper, what if I just like it a lot?” Then be honest about that, with yourself first and then with your partner. To fully accept yourself, you have to be able to honestly look at, understand, and embrace your own fetishes, pleasures, and fantasies. If this is what gets you off, accept it! The Golden Rule of Kink is that as long as you’re not hurting yourself or others with your fetishes and fantasies, or even with your actions, then you’re good. Now, if you’re into erotic spanking, we may have to amend ‘hurting’ to ‘causing lasting harm’ because a little impact play that stings and then feels so good is different, but as a general guideline, the Golden Rule of Kink works. If you like to watch, find someone who likes to be watched. There is a partner out there for everyone.

Questions for Cuckold Acceptance

Here’s some questions you may want to really think about and face with full honesty in your journey towards cuckold acceptance. If you want to know how to tell if you’re a cuckold, ask yourself these, and take some time with a journal to muse about both the questions and how you feel about them! Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help with processing through those feelings, thoughts, and even completely unconscious reactions.

• Does being a cuckold mean I have less self worth?
• Am I a lesser person because of what I find enjoyable in the bedroom?
• In what ways does being a cuckold hurt me? Does it hurt the ones I love?
• How would living a cuckold lifestyle really look? How would it differ from my life now?

Cuckolds Need Support Too

If you’re in need of some advice about coming to terms with your needs, desires, and fantasies, any of the Ladies of the Empire could help you; I’d certainly be happy to help you work through your thoughts and feelings, and your desires. Perhaps a little roleplay about what your cuckold life would look like could help you accept that you are a cuckold and need this in your life. Maybe give me a call and we can talk through your experiences, and find a way to bring you to a place where you understand and accept your fetishes and yourself as you are. No changes needed.

Your Cuckold Mistress, Harper

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