Now, you may be reading this right now, thinking, “Ms. Kay Marie, my wife (or girlfriend) will never agree to cuckold me!” (That may or may not be true, but that’s a whole other blog post, my dear.) But even if it is true, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have some kind of outlet for your cuckolding fantasies.
Cuckold Fantasies In An Existing Relationship
If you are indeed in a relationship where your wife or girlfriend has told you she has no intention of ever cuckolding you, that doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to have fantasies. Maybe you think about her having sex with her ex…or her coworker…or better yet, your coworker. There is absolutely nothing wrong with fantasizing, especially if it’s the only way to get your needs met.
Furthermore, if you want to take your exploring a little further, why not try out a little cuckold phone sex? Any of these lovely LDW ladies or I would be more than happy to play out a cuckold fantasy with you to help you have an outlet for them!
Of course, your cuckold lifestyle might be something altogether different from what I mentioned above if you get brave and talk to your wife or girlfriend about your fantasies. If she’s already told you she isn’t interested, that’s one thing. But if you’ve never brought it up, you don’t really have much to lose by doing so. Honesty is always best, in my opinion. The worst she can do is say no, right? And then you’re no worse off than you were before.
But she could also say yes! Perhaps she’s already even got a cuckold bull in mind. She may not have the correct terminology for it, but she may have thoughts of fucking other men. You never know until you ask!
The Real-Life Cuckold Lifestyle
Now, don’t get me wrong. Without knowing your personal situation, I would never advise you to just spill everything to your partner. But as I said, I do think honesty is usually the best policy. And you never know what might be going on in her mind while you’re having your own thoughts about the cuckold lifestyle.
Yes, it’s true that cuckold fantasies and cuckold phone sex are a lot of fun. But nothing quite beats the real thing, does it? And even if you have the real thing, you certainly don’t have to give up fantasizing or phone sex (unless your partner tells you to). You can have a little of all of it and enjoy every aspect of the cuckold lifestyle.
If you’re wondering how you can get your wife or girlfriend to cuckold you in real time, the answer is, it depends on the lady in question. Some women will respond best to being told that their sexual pleasure is most important. Others will respond best to being told that their partner wants them to be in control sexually. And still others will respond best to something else. I know most guys expect a one-size-fits-all answer to that question, but it truly does depend on your partner and her personality.
If you would like a more personalized approach to this question of how to build a cuckold lifestyle for yourself, I would love to help you out. All you have to do is give me, Ms. Kay Marie, a call. We can discuss every aspect of your current situation and your cuckolding fantasies and figure out what would work best for you. I look forward to talking to you!