I want to talk about an aspect of the cuckold fetish that often gets overlooked: Cuckold Humiliation!
Now, yes, the idea of being embarrassed because your girlfriend or wife is cuckolding you is pretty common, but I want to tease this idea out more, make it more real and up in front. I want to get in depth with cuckold humiliation as its own separate thing. If you listened to the Whore School episode on the Cuckold Fetish, you already know that my favorite version of cuckolding is based in female superiority. If you haven’t listened, you can hear the Cuckold Fetish episode here, and don’t forget to tune in, live, on Sunday nights at 11 pm EDT, for new episodes.
What do I mean when I talk about cuckold humiliation?
As with all forms of erotic humiliation, the cuckold humiliation starts with you being embarrassed. In this case, you’re embarrassed because you’re not the one having sex with your wife or girlfriend. Sometimes it’s just that simple fact that proves to be the spark to your humiliation. You’re not having sex with a woman who, in theory, ought to be sexually available to you. How embarrassing! Sometimes, there’s extra layers to your humiliation: maybe he’s significantly better endowed than you are. Perhaps he can make her cum multiple times where you can’t. Maybe, when she puts you side by side with him, you just plain don’t measure up.
Cuckold humiliation is playing on the thing that embarrasses you.
In this case, you’re not into the scenario because her desirability as a sexual partner reflects well on you, like in the Hot Wife fantasy. You’re not into it, because you love to see a Big Black Cock in action, making your woman into a dirty slut in bed. You’re turned on, because it’s embarrassing, because it’s plain humiliating to see how much more she wants him than she wants you. You’re into it because you’re not as much of a man as he is, and having that rubbed in your face is fucking hot.
I’m into it because cuckold humiliation hits all my happy buttons.
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As I mentioned in this Whore School episode, to paraphrase the old Groucho Marx line: “I wouldn’t want to be a part of any club that would have my member…”
Not into cuckolding myself, but you certainly make it sound fun!
@Fistogamous: I think you discount yourself too much. You’d be a fine club member. It just has to be the right club. 😉
@Doubletee: a lot of games are fun in fantasy land, but the transition to reality land can take quite a bit of the shine off. Fantasy cuckold can be a lot of fun to play with. 😉
Found this one as well! I think I may not be into cuckolding right now, but your writing is beautiful!
I’m glad you like the way I string words together! That’s very validating, especially if you enjoy the writing even if you don’t vibe with the fetish. Thank you!
It’s like you just know my inner soul. I’m really not manly enough. Men f*ck women, that’s not for me – I’m too fem. Also, she could just cuck me … I’m not strong enough to stop her. It seems like all women know that I am a wimp.
Thank you for being so smart and on it.
Aww, too fem to fuck women? What you need is a nice lesbian. Or to just accept your role as secondary support in the bedroom!