Lately I’ve had quite a few callers and session playmates that seem to think the cuckold fantasy is all about turning their wives or girlfriends into semi-sentient fleshlights for other men to fuck, in some live-action porno world that caters to male sexual desires. Now, if that’s your thing, you do you, but I have to let you know that what truly sparks joy in this Femdom’s heart is the idea of cuckold domination. I like fantasies in which the woman is in charge of both her own sexuality and who gets to fuck her, and when. Too many cuckold scenarios play out as if the woman on her back is just a cum rag, with no will of her own, and that makes my pussy dry up. And no one wants a dry pussy.
Critique of the Hotwife
Let me start with the bummer part of this, and tell you that the hotwife fantasy is not one of my favorites. Or rather, I like to twist it right on around in a feminist reclamation sort of a manner, and turn that hapless slut of a whore into a willing participant who goes out and finds a better man to please her because she wants it. To me, de-centering the cuckold’s desires is the heart of cuckold domination fantasies. It’s not about you getting to watch your personal slut whore get fucked in a scenario that perfectly caters to your current fetishes and desires. It’s about HER, getting her needs and desires met, with no strings, and no need to cater to someone else’s emotional/mental landscape.
Cuckold Domination
Domination and submission games are all about power. Who has the power, who’s wielding power, and who doesn’t have power; all very vital parts of the game two (or more) people play together. Cuckold Domination just adds some cuck dynamics on top. For my preferred version of this game, the woman has the power, and makes the decisions. She is empowered to go out and find someone that can meet her needs, and provide her with what she wants. Her desires and will are the animating principle, and the fact that the husband/boyfriend/partner gets off on it is just the icing on the cake. Of course you’d get off on it, you love seeing her be powerful and strong, and knowing that she’s going to go have great sex?! Who wouldn’t get off on that?
The Perfect Cuckold Fantasy
Imagine that one day your wife comes to you, sits you down, and tells you that she’s ready to open up the relationship. Maybe you’re thinking that you’ll get to go fuck other women, but the fact is her sexuality has outstripped yours. She wants more sex, better sex, with bigger, hard cocks. Maybe she wants to try two or three guys at once! She’s been on the internet, read some porn and some erotica stories, and now she’s got ideas. So you agree, sure, let’s open the relationship! She goes on a few dates, stays out overnight once, and then, slowly, things start to shift and change between you. She’s no longer so willing to overlook things like how you never put the seat down in the bathroom. Those little chin hairs on the sink vanity that you never wipe up? Suddenly that’s a problem. And she starts to tell you ‘not now dear’ when you try to initiate sex. She’s “too sore”!
Cuckold Lifestyle
The shift between happily married swingers to cuckold domination is gradual, but boy once it takes hold you’re in for it. As soon as she starts talking about how much she loves these big cocks, and wants to invite you into the bedroom to witness it, but her lover is worried about your reaction, you know you’re about to be dominated. That’s your sign, your warning, that you’re going to be kneeling in the corner watching your wife take another man’s hot cock, and if you’re fucking lucky you’ll get to clean her up afterward. If you’re very lucky, you may get to lick her pussy juice off his dick. And from there? You’re going to be a very sweet cuckold submissive.
Ready to Submit?
If you want to try some cuckold humiliation or domination fantasies, give me a call! Remember that I’m the Mistress of the Month for November 2024, so you can add five minutes for free to any paid session all month long. Feel free to ask questions in the comments here, or let me know all about your fervent defense of the hotwife/slutwife fetish! My email is harper@enchantrixempire.com, you can always contact me directly. I’m looking forward to hearing from you, and introducing you to the wonderful world of cuckold power exchange games!
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Your Cuckold Mistress, Harper
I have and will always prefer, cuckold fantasies where the woman does the choosing, and the fucking, and the choosing of who’s doing the fucking. Too often in many male centered cuckold fantasies I can tell they’ve been watching too much porn and have no idea what real cuckolding is. What they really want is a live action porno that they get to direct.